Have the courage to walk away from
that which no longer serves you. Hold your head high and be at peace with your
choice to value yourself. ~ ACN
To walk away from that which no
longer serves you sounds incredibly easy to do yet most of us find it such a
challenge and heartbreaking a thing to do.
Most of us also find great
difficulty in doing this as we believe, at some level, that we deserve the
treatment that is metered out to us mainly because we have no self-worth,
self-esteem or self-love.
We worry about the consequence of
our decision knowing that things will never be the same again. We fear the changes that will come with
making the decision to walk away. We wonder how this will affect us, who will
still be our friends, if our families will support us once we make the decision
to walk away. Our heads are flooded with
thoughts of foreboding prior to making this choice. We traverse through a multitude of “what if’s”.
Often we have become so cosy in our
little rut, knowingly or unknowingly and are filled with fear of the changes
that will come with walking away.
When we examine the reasons why we
have no sense of self-worth or our esteem is very low, our sense of love for
ourselves is minimal if there at all, we find that there is worth, esteem and
love right there hidden behind layer upon layer of discrimination, of abuse, of
lack.
Acknowledge that it is indeed
there and take the steps to build upon what is there. Each of us, arrive on this planet with these
intact. Sadly, as life happens and we build walls often so thick and dense
protecting what little there is of it. We buy into the words and action of
others, believing we are worthless or undeserving and unlovable. Eventually we
take on the belief ourselves that we are these things and completely lose sight
of that which is hidden within us. We
forget that each wall has tiny little cracks in it and that we are fully able
to chisel away at them, in time bringing them crashing down.
Take a step back. Stop. Listen.
Now ask yourself; Am I worthy of more than this that no longer serves me? Am I
deserving of more than this? Allow
yourself to feel your worth and deservingness. Right now you will likely feel
that hot energy that surges through you that says; YES! I deserve than more
than this. I am worth more than this.
Gather your courage, welcome it, feel
it, embrace it, push your fear away turning it into a positive action and make
the choice that will serve you through your experience. Allow peace to flow over and through you as
you walk courageously away from the things that no longer serve you. You are worthy! You are deserving of all the good things that
the Universe has to offer you. Greater
than this remember always that you are the most beautiful loving being created
by your Divine.
May Angels always surround you as
you make changes to bring you to being the very best that you can be in this
lifetime, in this wonderful place, Earth, as you continue your soul journey.
In love and
light,
Amanda
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© Amanda C Nicolin 2013
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